Pastor Sarah Haas Pastor Sarah Haas

Pastor’s Paragraph - September 3, 2020

In my last note to you in the e-news, I shared that I had been hearing about tender-hearted living very regularly. I also shared that the spiritual practice of examen, which involves reflecting on each day, is something that helps me in my desire to live with an open and courageous heart. Another spiritual practice that supports me in seeking to live with a tender heart is connecting with God's creation. 

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Pastor Marc Hayden Pastor Marc Hayden

Pastor’s Paragraph - August 27, 2020

A recent theme in worship has to do with waiting, an apt topic for this time. We are eagerly awaiting the end of the pandemic. We yearn for the peace of loving, just and respectful relationships.

But there is more to waiting than getting through the current season of adversity…

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Pastor Pam Taylor Pastor Pam Taylor

Pastor’s Paragraph - August 20, 2020

Joy is Fruit of the Spirit

I recently completed auditing a course from Yale University called The Science of Happiness. It was based on a lot of research, part of which was the basis for a book The Science of Happier Spending by Elizabeth Dunn. You can get a quick highlight of her ideas on her Ted Talk. All of this reminded me of the Christian concepts set out by Richard Foster. Foster claims that one of the disciplines of the Christian is choosing simplicity for our lives.

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Pastor Sarah Haas Pastor Sarah Haas

Pastor’s Paragraph - August 13, 2020

In the last few weeks, I have heard a number of conversations about tender-hearted living, courageous living, or living from our core in many different places and circles.  What does tender-hearted living, courageous living, or living from your core mean to you? 

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Pastor Marc Hayden Pastor Marc Hayden

Pastor’s Paragraph - August 6, 2020

Charles de Foucauld is a saint of the church who lived from 1858-1916. Born into a wealthy French family he lost his way as a young man when his parents died, leaving him with great sadness, no firm direction and too many resources at his disposal. A life pursuing self-centered desires brought him to a place of emptiness. Not knowing what else to do, he joined the French Army…

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Pastor Pam Taylor Pastor Pam Taylor

Pastor’s Paragraph - July 30, 2020

The Dark Night of the Soul and Hope

The dark night of the soul describes a spiritual change or crisis in the faith journey. This idea was taken from a very long poem written by St. John of the Cross in the 1500's. Philosophers and other religious writers have also written on this concept. Some people describe this crisis as…

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Pastor Sarah Haas Pastor Sarah Haas

Pastor’s Paragraph - July 23, 2020

Dear Friends,

What have you been enjoying in different ways this summer? Water is something that I am experiencing differently this summer. I've been a YMCA person since the age of two, except during college, but even in college, I was lap swimming with teams for workouts a few times a week. Since COVID I have mostly adjusted to being out of the pool. A few days ago, I had one of the strong sensations that connected me to my deepest enjoyment of lap swimming…

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Pastor Marc Hayden Pastor Marc Hayden

Pastor’s Paragraph - July 16, 2020

The stories from our sacred scriptures we study in Sunday worship provide a surplus of meaning. There are always ideas and insights yet to be explored. For instance, this past Sunday we looked at the story of Jesus walking on the water in order to come to the aid of the disciples who were facing stormy conditions. You can read this mysterious and astonishing account in 

Matthew 14:22-33.

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Pastor Pam Taylor Pastor Pam Taylor

Pastor’s Paragraph - July 9, 2020

Just Sayin'

I will admit that I am rather concerned by some of the things I have read on Facebook. It is not disagreement but graceful disagreement that makes the world a better place. Grace in disagreement - expressing how this issue could be different and how is an essential part of human communication and experience. As a culture we might well evolve through disagreement. Ideas subjected to criticism grow stronger than ideas left unchallenged.

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Pastor Sarah Haas Pastor Sarah Haas

Pastor’s Paragraph - July 2, 2020

Dear Friends,

I miss you. I care about you. I wonder how you are doing?

A few weeks ago, I was speaking to friend, author of Purpose: A Shift from Driving It to Embracing It, Indianapolis business woman, and community leader who shared with us at our Advent gathering and Lenten gathering this past year. We were speaking about different emotions. We spoke of awe.

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Pastor Marc Hayden Pastor Marc Hayden

Pastor's Paragraph - June 25th, 2020

In a meditation entitled By Their Fruits, Howard Thurman writes:

Further, I may not ever be deeply assured that I am not mistaken. I may be appraising my experience in the light of my own great need or my own previous conditioning or teaching. As a matter of fact, it is true that most of the fundamental decisions which we make are made on the basis of insufficient evidence. We cannot wait for final proof or verification. It would be too late. Thus, we wait as long as we can and then act on the basis of the total knowledge up to the present, with the hope that the future may verify our decision. This means that the decision does not have integrity in itself. Its integrity rests upon how it works out, how it unfolds.

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Pastor Sarah Haas Pastor Sarah Haas

Pastor's Paragraph - June 11, 2020

Wow! Thanks. Help.

Dear Friends,

Do you have any favorite tools or supports this time of year? Maybe some gardening tools, sports equipment, or lawn chair or hammock?

A few weeks ago, I heard about a new prayer tool or support…

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Pastor Marc Hayden Pastor Marc Hayden

Pastor's Paragraph - June 4, 2020

God is good, all the time.

We face two daunting challenges in the world our Leader loves and gave his life for: healing a novel corona virus and dismantling systemic racism. As with all daunting challenges, God is with us to guide us toward wise words and actions.

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Pastor Pam Taylor Pastor Pam Taylor

Pastor’s Paragraph - May 28, 2020

Guilt
I often comment to people, if there was a guilt overdose I would be dead! During this period of time it is easy to feel guilty without even being aware of it.

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Pastor Sarah Haas Pastor Sarah Haas

Pastor's Paragraph - May 21, 2020

Dear Friends,

You are a tremendous blessing! It is a gift to serve with you. Thank you for being a loving and welcoming community of Jesus' disciples. Thank you for praying for each other and our local and global communities. Thank you for adapting to different ways of worshiping together and serving in ministry together. I am grateful for the many ways you continue to share the love of Christ with others in these times.

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Pastor Marc Hayden Pastor Marc Hayden

Pastor's Paragraph - May 14, 2020

Dear Members, Friends and Staff of Friedens Church,

I love you.

I love you so much that I have been staying home as much as possible to help stem the tide of the virus

I love you so much that when…

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Pastor Pam Taylor Pastor Pam Taylor

Pastor's Paragraph - May 7, 2020

A Quiet Center

I have been fascinated by the pictures of animals being drawn into cities because of the lack of traffic and people during the Pandemic. I have seen herds of elk in Japanese cities and in Estes Park, Colorado. The pictures look so peaceful with animals instead of traffic!

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Pastor Sarah Haas Pastor Sarah Haas

Pastor”s Paragraph - April 30, 2020

This week, I offer you a photo from Friedens' butterfly garden and a photo from our yard. I feel like we are in a time of germination and growth waiting for clearer understanding of how we can join God's Spirit in cultivating a beloved community for all and not just some.

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Pastor Marc Hayden Pastor Marc Hayden

Pastor's Paragraph - April 23, 2020

These words of Brené Brown articulate well how I have been feeling and the work to which I feel called to devote my time and energy:

We will not go back to normal.  Normal never was.  Our pre-corona existence was not normal other than we normalized greed, inequity, exhaustion, depletion, extraction, disconnection, confusion, rage, hoarding, hate and lack.  We should not long to return, my friends.

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Pastor Pam Taylor Pastor Pam Taylor

Pastor’s Paragraph - April 16, 2020

The Peace of Christ

When I gave birth to my first child I felt relatively alone. My husband was out of the country in the military. As I went to the hospital and into labor I remember the amazing peace that came to me. It felt like strength and confidence. I felt an extreme trust in the process of having a child. I also felt this peace when Don and I go to Madison and eat at a little hamburger place that is like a boat on the river…

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