Pastor’s Corner – Sunday, Mar 22

Lessons from Loss

Mourning my son’s death has taught me that vulnerability connects us to others. We live in a social media dominated world where we post pictures of the beautiful places we visit, the exciting events we attend, and the interesting people we know. There is nothing wrong with sharing these highlights, as long as we are honest about the lowlights too.

It is easy to give the impression that everything is fun and exciting. We get a lot of followers that way. We are admired and envied. But on every life some rain falls. When I am honest and open about the rain and storms in my life, I find authentic connection with others. In shared pain we discover the compassion to help one another. Honest sharing and active listening are the seedbed for healing and the renewing of our lives and our relationships.

Remember, Jesus said: Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted (Matthew 5:4). Sharing the fullness of our life experiences, the highs and the lows, is the path to solidarity, comfort, and peace.

Yours in Christ,

Marc

Pastor Marc Hayden

Marc brings a lot of experience to his work at Friedens UCC, along with a passion to continue to learn and add value to the practice of pastoral ministry.  Marc is committed to living his gifts by engaging in ministry on a team. He enjoys collaborating with the church staff and Council of Ministry Leaders to advance Friedens’ mission of sharing the love of Christ with all people.  Marc is a husband, father and grandfather who invests significant time and energy in these important relationships. You can reach Marc at 317-490-8084 or at PastorMarc.FriedensUCC@Outlook.com.

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